Showing posts with label Moving On. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Moving On. Show all posts

Friday, 23 November 2012

With Love -Love!




 

“Cuz every living person in this world would trade anything for the sake of Inner Peace:”



Irony often dominates situations, and this one is one such instance.

No matter what your age is, but the day you start understanding life, life often bewilders you with the existence of such vast range of emotions, experiences and explorations.

Heartbreak is the most uniform feature of them all. A failure that broke your heart, a loss, an unfulfilled promise, a shattered hope it comes with a blank cheque of pain.

Most of us, (at least 97%) people reading this have undergone the wounds of a heartbreak, but what next?

Nothing guaranteed a short cut to getting over people. I mean NOTHING AT ALL.

And it gave rise to the important question of not “how to move on” but what next!

Irony is, in the revolution of & communication, we’re no more in touch with our own needs and emotions!

You realize your need for sex, but fail to admit how much you crave for love!

And why not? After all accepting and acknowledging the importance of love & emotions that tag along with attachment are so not the cool thing to be boasting of!

Just like women in our society, have been synonym to emotions their trait of being physically weak has been attempted to equate & thus, confused with the strength & need of emotions.

But tell me-

When did crying while missing somebody become a crime?

When did appreciating & acknowledging emotions become a sin?

When did demanding love & giving back more love wrong?

Being unemotional & strong looked easy? Didn’t it?

Honestly, yes! It is way easier and less complicated and also less meaningful.

Admit it,

There is always a story, a book, a song, a movie that never fails to trickle down  tears. And well, you cry alone, to sleep.

The problem with us is that we’re very scared about the nerve wrecking uncertainties of acceptance of our emotions.

Because emotions are too strong to break down for us, love is strongest of them all. But they are stronger in every sense to make us break down.

The tears, the fake-false smiles, the cigarette butts, the glasses of alcohol, the pages of your diary, the stained ink, the strained mind and the mixed emotions come up knocking to each door defining the breakdown of denied emotions.
strength lies in living beyond the cynism of the judgementalists!

And you still want to live caged by frozen walls of emotions, as you demand for strength.

“When did hill provide the strength, I’ve never known.

I always thought it was a job warm alone.”

Why would a hug heal the pain?

 Why would a smile ease everything again?

Why would you look for solace in your mother’s lap?

Why a kiss could touch the soul?

May because you’re still humans, meant to love each other.

With that technological revolution already over taking, I can see the stoned moment coming.

Everybody craves for love, everybody is greedy for love.

And yet you think giving up on it can keep you happy?

Giving up on something you crave for the most?

Why give up on something that actually are, for something you think might give you the benefits of profit? *short term profit

“Yes, love is plain stupid! Now do you realize how important stupidities are in our lives?”

Let that “STRONG” person battle with strength, and not weak outlooks of emotion.

Let that strong person let go off his guard, to live and earn happiness with not the fear of wounds but the love for happiness!

“Emotions are immortal! You can’t kill them with even the best of your attempts, but kill yourself instead by denying a life of peace”
Let the emotions breathe free...


Keep loving as you keep living!

Cuz love is the virtue of the strong hearted!
with love...

Friday, 5 October 2012

The Promise to Keep in Touch…..!






SCENE 1- Last few days of school, during exams!
There is chaos, excitement and a vibrant buzz! Tables are filled with colorful pens as people put their most creative hand-writings on paper!
No! I ain’t referring to the board exam fever… all the fuss is about the stack of ‘slam Books and Autograph diaries’, colorful and happening, hand-made or Archies imported, that await their turns to be filled by our near and dear friends and also the far and hi-bye friends! Different slam books, different people, different equations and different words! But all the questions remain the same and so do their answers (almost). Yet there is a certain joy… of giving away those slams, autographs, signed t-shirts, contact details!
In them and with them we leave a promise… A genuine one! The promise to keep in touch!

SCENE 2- Social Gathering/Campaign/Meet
We meet new people… many for the very first time in our lives! 5 days of togetherness…3 days of laughter…2 days of bonding...a day of love! We humans get attached to each so easily! Some time to chatter and the next moment we appear like the best of friends…bonding together since ages! No we don’t go with a plan to make new relations… new friends! To us it just happens! What is rather difficult for us is the process of parting! The concept of Good bye’s is enough to make some teary eyed! As they say, ‘’there is nothing Good about a Bye’’.
The only thing that plays the soothing role is the promise… A genuine one! The promise to keep in touch!


SCENE 3- Family/ Friends Get-together
We know them… we bond well with some… we fight with some! But we share an emotional chord with them! Family/ Friendly gatherings are the most looked forward to events! If not they end up being fun and memorable eventually… But what we leave with while going is the promise… A genuine one! The promise to keep in touch!

Cause people in our life come and go, but it is when they near their time of parting we realize their role and importance in our lives! Even if not we always leave with a promise to keep in touch! If you re-think its sounds like the most false yet convincing reassurance!
Today we have endless means of staying in touch! Apart from the traditional face-to-face meet-ups, we are surrounded by a TECHNO-WEBBED world! Facebook, Twitter, Linked In, Google Plus, Skype, SMS, Whatsapp, BBM, Chaton and there are newer options coming up everyday! And yet we know how far and distanced we are from people each day!
We blame our buzy routines despite spending endless hours of wastedness we fail to reach out to those we promised to stay connected with. And yet we manage to find time for our current favorites! We disconnect…or rather just lose network with those running on parallel tracks!
Those promises were not fake! Those reassurances were not masks…
Life moves on… and so do we!
It does not signal to leave behind those people or the promises!
BUT WHENEVER YOU CAN GIVE IT AN ATTEMPT, A SIMPLE GENUINE EFFORT…
TO KEEP UP “THAT PROMISE TO KEEP IN TOUCH”.

J J J