Showing posts with label LIFE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LIFE. Show all posts

Saturday, 27 July 2013

Mumbai Dreams

Remember that kid in class VII, good in studies, karate, cricket, dance, singing… and his parents would send him everywhere, for all the classes…COMPLETELY EXHAUSTING the poor little kid! His life had become an event. But the point is, “Where is it eventually heading?”

Similar is the case with my city, Mumbai. The very mention brings forth innumerable thoughts and emotions. City of dreams, international city, city of hopes, city of glamour, maya nagri, city that teaches you life… and the list of synonyms for this city are endless. However, I’d say Mumbai is an emotion. Being the Financial capital that provides funds for the healthy functioning of different states and their welfare. What really does the city get? More dreamers coming here to fulfill their dreams, lesser space to accommodate all, stiff competition, rising prices, polluted air, unhealthy surroundings and scores of overlooking people lost in their own world!
While the onlookers will notice the crowd, the glam and the glitz of the city… a Mumbaikar, will always eventually swear by his love for the city. Once a Mumbaikar, life will never be the same anywhere else. There is something very different about of this city, one like none.

However, you will often hear a local complaint of the weak monsoon preparations, of the endless traffic and crowded locals, of the street side eateries and sky kissing properties… and all of the other negatives, he is sure to curse the BMC for a million valid reasons, that remain unchanged!

Over the years, Mumbai has seen a lot. The lot is not a comparison with the rich culture of Bengal or the heritage, yet well developed Delhi or the incessantly delightful Bangalore. Mumbai has its own taste, a taste which is the blend of all. The blend of various cultures, styles, people, events, leaders, revolutions and circumstances, today, enable us to boast of the ‘Spirit of Mumbai’. A spirit that goes beyond any other state in the country- the spirit of a fighter, the spirit of a humanitarian, the spirit of an achiever.
My city, my janma bhoomi & karma bhoomi, lacks nothing but development. I mean planned development. 
“Comparing most of our lives with the city, most tempting things are up for grabs!”
But, for the reputation that it has been carrying around for ages, my city, by the expectations of the world, should possess every advanced amenity- bullet trains (at least a Metro like Delhi), well maintained airport, good transport system, high standard of living for the people, better bridges and highways… and no the list won’t end any sooner. Cherry on the cake, the BMC, some builder/ developer or some public figure comes up with proposals that bring him easy money and claim to fame with a new bridge, building or area being redeveloped by him.
And there ain’t any plan for the development of the city! That, giving you enough reasons to get stuck in traffic thanks to the 10 year long Metro construction process, potholes and road constructions. Of course! We’ll blame the BMC. Because, no planning only short term goals.

Such is our life. Unplanned, unthought and often aimless. Lets hope to make it a story that will be for its subtleness remembered. Too many cooks do spoil the broth; too many things, most unwanted only add an extra bit of clutter. Good things happen out of aimlessness too, after all life has its own plan for you. But don’t let your dreams fade away, may be your dreams are a key to something better. Live your life by your standards and not others demands and wishes. Doing something extra is not a waste, but at the cost of not doing something important is loss.

Mumbai’s biggest gift to anyone is that it teaches them the way of life.
To cope with the where, what and how’s of life.

To brave every situation and to keep going.

It teaches you the "Never Say Die" attitude.

It teaches you to DREAM. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. CHASE YOUR DREAMS. LIVE THEM.

It teaches you… whatever you can learn from it!

And yes, it teaches you to LEARN.

Hoping that my city for all its right glory and our lives, for all the right reasons get the ‘desired direction’




Friday, 23 November 2012

With Love -Love!




 

“Cuz every living person in this world would trade anything for the sake of Inner Peace:”



Irony often dominates situations, and this one is one such instance.

No matter what your age is, but the day you start understanding life, life often bewilders you with the existence of such vast range of emotions, experiences and explorations.

Heartbreak is the most uniform feature of them all. A failure that broke your heart, a loss, an unfulfilled promise, a shattered hope it comes with a blank cheque of pain.

Most of us, (at least 97%) people reading this have undergone the wounds of a heartbreak, but what next?

Nothing guaranteed a short cut to getting over people. I mean NOTHING AT ALL.

And it gave rise to the important question of not “how to move on” but what next!

Irony is, in the revolution of & communication, we’re no more in touch with our own needs and emotions!

You realize your need for sex, but fail to admit how much you crave for love!

And why not? After all accepting and acknowledging the importance of love & emotions that tag along with attachment are so not the cool thing to be boasting of!

Just like women in our society, have been synonym to emotions their trait of being physically weak has been attempted to equate & thus, confused with the strength & need of emotions.

But tell me-

When did crying while missing somebody become a crime?

When did appreciating & acknowledging emotions become a sin?

When did demanding love & giving back more love wrong?

Being unemotional & strong looked easy? Didn’t it?

Honestly, yes! It is way easier and less complicated and also less meaningful.

Admit it,

There is always a story, a book, a song, a movie that never fails to trickle down  tears. And well, you cry alone, to sleep.

The problem with us is that we’re very scared about the nerve wrecking uncertainties of acceptance of our emotions.

Because emotions are too strong to break down for us, love is strongest of them all. But they are stronger in every sense to make us break down.

The tears, the fake-false smiles, the cigarette butts, the glasses of alcohol, the pages of your diary, the stained ink, the strained mind and the mixed emotions come up knocking to each door defining the breakdown of denied emotions.
strength lies in living beyond the cynism of the judgementalists!

And you still want to live caged by frozen walls of emotions, as you demand for strength.

“When did hill provide the strength, I’ve never known.

I always thought it was a job warm alone.”

Why would a hug heal the pain?

 Why would a smile ease everything again?

Why would you look for solace in your mother’s lap?

Why a kiss could touch the soul?

May because you’re still humans, meant to love each other.

With that technological revolution already over taking, I can see the stoned moment coming.

Everybody craves for love, everybody is greedy for love.

And yet you think giving up on it can keep you happy?

Giving up on something you crave for the most?

Why give up on something that actually are, for something you think might give you the benefits of profit? *short term profit

“Yes, love is plain stupid! Now do you realize how important stupidities are in our lives?”

Let that “STRONG” person battle with strength, and not weak outlooks of emotion.

Let that strong person let go off his guard, to live and earn happiness with not the fear of wounds but the love for happiness!

“Emotions are immortal! You can’t kill them with even the best of your attempts, but kill yourself instead by denying a life of peace”
Let the emotions breathe free...


Keep loving as you keep living!

Cuz love is the virtue of the strong hearted!
with love...

Sunday, 5 August 2012


Friendship Day!

" friends are not about words and quotes, they in the journey of your life are a boat"
It’s the first Sunday of August, what we popularly celebrate as the friendship day! As I sit at home being remotely connected to the world, life just keeps screaming how much has it really changed!

May be its not the same excitement that we once had in school! Honestly, friendship day is just another hallmark day- where you can rush and push for gifts, cards, bands and mementos. But what makes it really special is the conscious and dedicated efforts to celebrate friendship.

As kids, the cards and friendship bands were a fancy necessity, a beautiful ritual to us! What made it better was the handmade friendship bands of wool and thread. The cards, the gifts, the special planning for your best friends and eventually a chance to thank your friends at least this one day in a year. The enthusiasm and celebration remained unmatched with those wrist full of tied ribbons and bands! Friendship indeed became a celebration.

As we come the to the present, with ideas like "har ek friend zaruri hota hai",back to today those bands are converted into marker inks and forward texts common for all! An FB status and a tweet on twitter seem enough to express all the love! But there is something that we celebrate beyond the friendship day today, we celebrate a bond of friendship each day! As we share gossips, as we share problems, as we share solutions and as we share support. Those fights, those pranks, those slangs and all that fun are all responsible for engraving a special place for each one in our hearts. Those heart breaks, patch ups, setting and counseling, the success treats and the motivation in failure are tied with the string of our friendship. Distance time, differences and quarrels strengthen the essence of life! Not that we’ll have someone forever. But yeah, if you look through the bright light, the memories shall fail to fizzle out! Smile and let them be! Be and let them smile! J

Not everyone was meant to be a friend forever, but your bitterness shall kill all the sweetness that ever existed! It was meant to happen, they were meant to go! Life is planned before hand like that!

Remember those slam books, with promises of being together forever, never changing and being the same, keeping in touch like the moon and the stars? It wasn’t fake forever, you just didn’t know how things would change!

Remember teasing those times of fun you shared! They were there so that you could remember them with a smile today!

Somethings went wrong, some went your way!

Don’t blame the friendship!

Don’t blame their intentions!

This friendship day, just try befriending the goodness you chose to ignore! Celebrate memories, celebrate friends! Its always great to call an old friend for the good-times sake!

Its nothing you will regret!

Life is beautiful!

Live it, love it, laugh at it!

Befriend happiness, befriend yourself!

Forgive all mistakes and care to care for friends!

Life is this way, no offence!

May be life is nothing like a movie, may be it is!

But good friends make good films (good life, I mean)

Happy Friendship Day to the near and dear and to the gone and far! Every li’l contribution of yours makes my life worth a smile J thanQ for coming right in here!

Lotsa luv! :*


Cheers!

Saturday, 26 November 2011

*AJEEB DAASTAAN HAI YEH*


WELCOME TO THE WEIRD WORLD!
This is no world different from the places where you live. It is at no distance…no time span away…it is here! Right here..where we stay…
“ajeeb duniya aur iske ajeeb log” I’m sure you haven’t heard this phrase for the first time in your life…
But here I’ll share my observations of this AJEEB DUNIYA AUR ISKE AJEEB LOG!
<!--[if !supportLists]-->·        <!--[endif]-->We want to be the richest, slog hard for it…so that we don’t have to compromise for big & small wants! But I reality the compromises, the adjustments become the joy of life.
<!--[if !supportLists]-->·        <!--[endif]-->We always enjoy travelling in a bus/train/auto/bike…but a drive back home in the best of the cars is still what we strive for.
<!--[if !supportLists]-->·        <!--[endif]-->Roadside paani puri is always delicious, but we still wish to go out for a 5star dinner.
<!--[if !supportLists]-->·        <!--[endif]-->Compromising with monthly budgets & making ends meet is such a new experience every month & yet we hope for the time when we won’t have to look into our expense budgets.
<!--[if !supportLists]-->·        <!--[endif]-->Whats shopping without bargaining…as long as it looks good…GUCCI or GUCHHI remain the same! Yet we are soo brand feverish!

Examples were few! But made sense, true?
Living life was never earning money! But in this over glammed, freaked out, the real dikhave ki duniya…are we losing out on ourselves?
Sometimes we fail to realize what makes us happy, what we want & we run behind what everyone terms as the the ULTIMATE KISMAT KI CHABI! THE KEY TO ALL SOLUTIONS…MONEY
*AJEEB DAASTAAN HAI YEH*

Insaan ki asli khubi to hamesha se rahi hai ki jo hai, jitna hai utne mein bhi kuch naya kar jaate hai, ek naya utsaah ek nai khushi le aate hai!
 par ab kya hua?
khud hi khud se dhokha kha gaye?
 


WARNING:
Don’t mix money with happiness! Illusions can be dangerous!!!